Since I'm 16 this year, I would say that I'm still young and still have much more to experience in life. I'm not wise yet to give advice on life. But I do learn somethings which have impact my life. So here is 16 things I've learned in life.
1◇ Never ever judge someone. Yeah I know this is something cliche. But seriously. This has taught me soooo much about everyone. Like my classmates. You know those happy ones, it's true they have the hardest lifes. Yup, they just put a smile on their faces everyday. Maybe it does help them to just smile and forget about their problems for awhile. Or they just choose to hide their sadness so that people would not ask if they are alright or anything. And even those suspicious ones in class. There is reasons why they are acting that way. Maybe because of some mental illness or even they are those kind of people who is showing their sadness or maybe its just them. We never know. But we can try to if we want. So yeah, try to know all of the people in your class/ cca/ workplace where ever. And also the attention seeking ones on social networks. Just because they are so annoying on social networks or somewhere, there is a always a reason why. Unless he or she is really really dumb.........they are different.
2◇ Haha, idk about you guys. But I'm not a fangirl. Seriously. People will always ask like how is that even possible? I will just say I'm not into them. Idc what kind of singers they are. Or what they are doing in their lifes. If I love their songs, I will just love their songs. I appreciate the good music they have made. But neh I would not want to know what they do in life. It's okay. But I know majority of the people out there fangirls a lot. I can say all of my friends or majority of them fangirls over a group of boyband or a singer for sure. But one thing I've learned never criticise their idols. Just don't. Let them be wild and crazy over them. Just let them be happy and live their lifes hahahah! Yeah their happiness won't affect you, so let them be. They are happy, that's all that matters.
3◇ Let out your inner most feeling to someone who means a lot to you. Like your lover, mum, dad, sister, brother or even your bestfriend or your pets! Someone, anyone. It will really make you feel so so much better. Well, even if you don't like sharing your feelings. I mean sometimes, maybe you do? Why not try. Trust me you will feel so so so much better. Like just complain about whatever you feel like complaining. Or maybe the sadness you are having. or the depression or what so ever. They could help you too and also you will feel so much better.
4◇ Watch your favourite childhood movies! I love doing this. Always make my day.
5◇ Always ask someone if they are okay when they seem different. Or sad. It helps them. ((Maybe)) depends on the situation.
6◇ Your friends left you? Don't be sad, they were never meant to be in your life. Cause really only true friends stay. Nope just don't feel sad. Don't be stress. Make new ones. Just don't waste your time on people like them. I know exactly how you feel. You will find better friends soon. Unless they have been your friends for the past 6 years or something...then yeah. You can be a little sad bout that. But still. Life goes on.
7◇ Adopt a pet cat/dog or any kind of animal which you love. They make your life a lot better. Especially cats. I mean I can't keep dogs but I know they are great companions too.
8◇ Please, please respect your parents. I know some of you guys might say like my parents isn't like yours that kind of stuff. I mean sometimes I see people scolding vulgarities to their parents on social networks just because they always nag at them or always scold them or they feel like they are favourism like seriously? They are your parents. No matter how bad they are or annoying they might get, they are the ones who gave you life. They love you so much. More than you know. Who give you shelter and provide food for you everyday. Work their ass off so you can freaking get an education to be a good and well educated person. So just because of those moments you would like hate them(?) Come on, be mature. Just get over it. No point being so petty over minor problems. Let it happen. I mean come on. Just because of that you hate them? Like seriously? I mean its not like they abandon you or something. See other children in this world who is really more sad in life without their parents. The main point is, don't use vulgarities to your parents. It's just a no. Respect them. No matter how terrible of a parent they can be. Unless you are abused or something, then...seek help.
9◇ Not invited for an outing? LIFE GOES ON.
10◇ Don't make fun of someone's flaws. They realise it. Your joke can really affect them. You have flaws too. Just don't.
11◇ Things will only get better. Trust me. But with one condition, you make it happen. Example, you are having a hard life now. So do you want the same life in the future? No. So put in the effort. Do well in your studies. Have a bright future! Your bf/gf left you? I know it will be hard. But you must get over them. Cause they were not meant for you. The longer you hold on to them. The more pain your heart will feel. The heavier it will get. So let them go and move on. Yeah so you must make the effort. To make it all better again.
12◇ Set goals in life. It will help you with your studies. Even if you don't have any in particular, choose some careers that you are intrested in. Then at least you will know what you want and you can put in the effort to acheive that goal of yours. It really helps seriously.
13◇ Plan ahead. Think of the possible outcomes that might happen.
14◇ Help with the house chores. It will make you more productive especially during this school holiday. Clear up your bookshelf, wadrobe whatever. There must be something you can do. Unless you have a maid and she already done all of that. Then...... (o __ o)
15◇ Don't work as a retail assistant if you are socially awkward, or uncomfortable working with people. Just don't. I learned this the hard way.
16◇ Unexpected people will really become the people you will need most in your life one day. Really. I cannot express how much this has affect my life a lot. Really sooo sooo much. You will love these people to bits. They will mean soooo much to you. But I know it's not exactly all of you. But from the people I've known. It's usually the most unexpected people who will mean so much to them. I know mine does. ♥
There you go, 16 important life lessons I've learnt. There is more actually, but this is the top 16. So ((stay golden pony boy)) HAHAHAHAH okay just kidding. Thanks for reading and bye.
